![]() ![]() Go to their parties or special events.The following signs are ones to be avoided: It's perfectly okay to still have feelings for your ex, but if you want to show them you've moved on, they can't know about those. Music thrills but love kills."ĭon't show any signs you care. "Kinda wish I didn't have VIP tix to Coachella so I be with my besties the whole time.I'm already nervous/excited and I don't get nervous around guys." "My date this Saturday is way too cute."Ugh, my hair is sloppy, I have no makeup on, and I'm wearing sweats and Uggs, and still I get honked at walking down the street.Humblebragging is when you pretend to be humble but actually brag. Post something a little mysterious to your social network that will get your ex thinking about all the cool things that you're doing without them. Have your ex and their friends wondering what you're actually up to. Going out to the beach? Take a picture and post a caption with something like "Tamed two beaches in two days with my two best friends. Take plenty of pictures when you're out with your friends, especially when you're having a blast. ![]() ![]() Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter are all golden opportunities to publicize your newfound freedom. The internet is a great way to convince your ex that you've moved on. Publicize all your fun new activities and interesting friends on social media. Say something like, "Oh, I'm just about to meet a friend, good talking to you," and walk off without looking back. Don't lie, but focus on your accomplishments rather than failures. That school you got accepted into? That too. That competition you won last weekend? Tell them. If your ex asks you about how you're doing, focus on only the good, not the bad.Try not to let any of the unhappiness you experienced during and after the breakup ruin your mood. You want them to think that you're happy because your life is good, not because you saw them. When you see your ex, smile a few times at them, but not in a flirty or longing way.If your ex sees you moping around in the mall, sad and depressed, they're definitely not going to believe that you've moved on. When you bump into your ex, you want to give the impression that you're happy but busy, even if that's not strictly true. This article has been viewed 1,160,231 times. In this case, 83% of readers who voted found the article helpful, earning it our reader-approved status. WikiHow marks an article as reader-approved once it receives enough positive feedback. She is also a Certified Matchmaker from The Matchmakers Institute as well as a Certified Body Language Expert from The Body Language Institute. Michelle holds a BA in Psychology from George Washington University. ![]() She has been featured in several media publications such as The Washington Post, Self, and NPR. With over 12 years of experience, Michelle specializes in one-on-one matchmaking and group coaching to help singles find healthy, lasting relationships. She is also the Co-Founder of The Matchmakers Alliance, an international industry organization for matchmakers. Michelle Jacoby is a Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and the Founder and CEO of DC Matchmaking, a privately owned, boutique matchmaking company based in Washington, DC, Maryland, and Virginia. This article was co-authored by Michelle Jacoby. ![]()
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